After another busy week I'm really looking forward to a short Christmas break. My strategy for the holidays this year is to simplify and be intentional. To deliberately do the things that pay the greatest spiritual, emotional and family dividends.
To not get caught going through the motions instead, to have game plan for a peaceful, refreshing, and memorable 2008 Christmas. My intention is to foster and impart a healthy spiritual perspective of Christmas to my children, to spend focused, quality time with them, to connect on deeper spiritual and emotional level with my wife, and create memories we'll fondly think of in the years to come.
My kids are still young (5, 3, 1), yet I can already sense a strong desire and need to relate to their dad on a deeper level. I've learned much as a fairly new parent, but what stands out to me is their need for relationships. I see them as primary building blocks for their growth and development. Kids crave attention, feedback, affirmation and love and whether they know it or not - correction.
I guess that's how God's has wired us. To grow into healthy, productive, well-adjusted adults we crave meanful relationships with our parents. When we don't experience it, we go looking for love, affirmation and attention in all the wrong places and end up spending much of our adult lives wondering where we went wrong and how to fix it.
I could expound and draw a few spiritual analogies from this, but I'll resist :)
Merry Christmas